When Dieting Gets Tough
April 6th, 2011
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by Seanna · Filed Under: Nutrition
I have a young friend that recently graduated college and is working with Jodi towards a cool goal. Since she’s new to “dieting” like we do around here, it’s the eating that’s become challenging. She called me the other night and needed to kind of confess and cry for a little bit. Basically it’s the old I’m obsessed with food and all I want is crap that I know doesn’t even taste good. I cannot wait for my cheat meal. Every where I turn in this office there’s a candy dish or it’s food day or there are leftover pastries in the break room. Recently someone was even eating McDonalds in the same train car (the nerve!)
We laughed as she described what she was feeling. Basically she’s not satisfied after she eats. She’s not starving, that’s not the problem. It’s that she’s not full, ever. Like leave food on the plate full. Yeah, we don’t get you full, sorry. But that’s the point. How are you going to eat three-four hours later if you’re stuffed now?
It’s also the texture/mouth feel issue that Jodi mentioned a week or so ago that’s she’s missing that add to the feeling of being unsatisfied. It was no surprise to learn that her cheat meals are pizza, fried foods, beer.
I don’t do the diets but I’ve been through this so I had a few suggestions:
* Quit eating the same thing meal after meal, day after day. A high variety will keep your mouth surprised and your brain engaged as you eat. Change up every component, the protein, the starch, the veg, fruit and the fat.
* Change up the preparations. Cooking Light is a terrific source for yummy recipes. If you can’t have the food exactly as is then take inspiration from the recipe and modify it to fit your plan. For example: a baked rosemary chicken cutlet recipe that calls for a panko breading is just as amazing with Ezekiel bread crumbs or omit the crumbs all together.
* Try something new. Nicole has been treating us with really yummy recipes lately and Amy and Heather too. Give them a go; these gals have been in the dieting game for a long time and know what they’re talking about.
* For these suggestions to work, you have to cook. You have to plan. You have to put in the effort to make your food be more satisfying.
* Avoid fake food crutches. For example, using Crystal Light in every glass of water you drink or bathing all your foods in butter spray. In time, artificial anything will dull your ability to taste the food, which is never satisfying.
* Get smarter about cheat meals. I have to think it’s time for her to move away from pizza and on to maybe something like a gourmet burger and a few sweet potato chips or mom’s clam chowder with a hunk of sour dough bread slathered with perfect English butter as her cheats.
As far the traps at the office:
* Don’t start with the candy. A small handful of skittles or m&m’s may in time be ok, but it’s deadly to newbies because once it begins, it’s very difficult to stop. What’s stupid is that with candy, after a while you can’t even taste it anymore and you’re mouth hurts. Each day, make it a goal to not do the candy. Don’t even start with just one or two tiny pieces. Walk away.
* Food days are a ridiculous office phenomenon. I mean, really, every birthday, every holiday, every other Friday? Like the dreaded candy dish, you have to decide ahead of time to not partake. And see about making your meals that day be especially yummy and inspiring. If you have to, join in the birthday song and immediately go back to your desk.
* When thoughts of food begin to take over, get up from your desk and go do something, put on your headphones, or whatever you can to distract yourself. Get your mind onto something interesting to minimize the space you have to think about food. Like on weekends, when it’s 4pm and you realize you’ve only eaten twice, it’s because you’re busy!
I don’t know if I helped her besides listening and sharing some of my own crazy thoughts and behaviors. Just getting it off her chest and hearing from a veteran that she’s not alone was enough to put it all back into perspective and have a few belly laughs too. She’s going to be fine.
So, what else works to keep your meals inspiring and your mind in the eating game? How do you deal with a toxic food environment at the office? Let’s chat it out in the comments.


