I Am Cheating On My Husband
Sorry, it’s the truth.
I am in a torrid love affair and I do not know what to do about it. Oh the injustice of it all!
Back in December of 2000, I made a bold decision for me and solid commitment to my children to become a stay at home mom. One of the best decisions of I have ever made because it taught me so much about myself that I may have never known. The first thing I learned is I can’t stay home with my children. Bwhahahaha! Holy moly is that a lesson in patience and gratitude! I will say I am glad I did it, but I won’t be opening a daycare any time soon!
All kidding aside on that one, I am still at home with my children. I never did fully return to the “office life” and I never will. I love my cherubs. But I do fear I am on some banned mommy list somewhere at a reading group or Gymboree somewhere. Haha!
The second thing that I learned is that I have a love and knack for gardening. Not a little bit of a love…a big love. I love to grow my own vegetables. If you have the space and just a wee bit of time, do it! The first time you eat your own green beans or broccoli will be the last time you go to Shaw’s. But life has a funny way of stealing your joys from you and you find yourself on the short end of the ‘hobby stick’. Not any more, I am resurrecting my garden as I speak.
The best thing out of all of the things that I learned (and there is a slew of them) was that I love to cook. I love to cook meals and I love to bake desserts. I love the presentation aspect of it and I like to try new flavors. I am not a spice type girl; in fact I am spice picky and will turn my nose up to a food if it even looks like it has curry on it. No, I am more of a flavor kind of girl. Stew tomatoes into a sauce to change the flavor. Add caramelized onions to give something depth. I will reach for a flavorful veggie before I will a pungent spice to add a little sumthin sumthin to a meal. Try steaming white fish in a pan with orange and red peppers, sweet onions and grape tomatoes sliced thin on top. Let me know how that tastes. Add spices if you like but don’t be surprised if you do not need them.
For the past few years, though I have gotten away from my love and oh, how I missed it so!
So then it happened.
I went to dinner with a friend about a week ago and got a meal that had a homemade mango salsa in it. I almost died at the table. And so began the affair…
I’ve tried to block it out of my mind. Visit with other foods. Explore other textures. Nothing works. I am in a full blown love affair with mango salsa right now. My hubby has caught me with it twice. He walked in the kitchen, I looked like a deer caught in a headlight, I denied everything, still had some on the corner of my mouth, he mumbled something about to the effect of when I love something I love it, made me feel like a crack addict in a back alley, but so what I don’t care. I love it. So now I’m on the hunt for a good recipe. Who has one?
If you are a salsa or chutney connoisseur, deposit the recipe below. PLEASE. As I seek counseling, help a sister out. I am back to cooking (and I mean meal events) at least 3 times a week and will just thrive on your suggestions. So throw them at me and everyone else for that matter. Or if you have mastered the art of flavor, do share! The old Jodi is dusting off the cob webs and heading back into the kitchen (btw I just got a new cooking set from my Amex points—those things are awesome!), apron and all! I am going to try Michelle’s suggestion from “Are you feeling me?” this weekend so give me some more to try with it.
Every so often I will share some good ones that I stumble upon and let you know about them. Right now I am thinking about experimenting with yummy post workout foods since I am about to start a performance series right after Menu Planning (which will finish this coming week). I think it’ll be helpful. Don’t you?
Bon Appetite Y’alls!









Hey there Jodi!
Glad you thought the recipe I “loosely” posted sounded good (it is BTW)! My mom and I got the original concoction from the book “The Fire Engine Diet” (gotta give credit where credit is due
but we added some tweaks to make it our own (esp. more spice!).
I retired from office life in 2003 to be a SAHM and haven’t looked back and while I’m with ya on that patience thing, I have no plans of returning either. Hope to one day get my business up and running from home full-time. *One Day* being the operative words! LOL
I don’t have any recipes off the top of my head to share at this exact moment but I do suggest stopping by this website I found recently: http://breadplusbutter.blogspot.com/
Oh goodness, the pics are heaven and they are recipes people could actually do! Hope you think it’s as great as I do
Happy long weekend!
P.S. Just read your comment on the “adding onion” to the sweet potato concoction. My mom is visiting us this weekend so I asked her to remind me of exactly what we use: she said we sauteed a red onion w/ the beans and red bells. You know what’s good! LOL
I made a strawberry salsa recipe today. Right now it’s a little bland, but I’m going to let it sit overnight, and if the flavor improves, I’ll definitely send it to you! Whole Foods sometimes has mango salsa in the produce section. It’s pretty tasty!
Hi Jodi,
I stayed at home with my first son for the first six months. I can honestly say (and this was with JUST ONE) that it made my full time 40+ hour a week job look like a cake walk. So I give you major kudos! It takes such patience and determination.
As for the mango salsa, no recipes here! Sorry.
Christine
Michelle!! Girl, there is butter in the name of that blog…I AM THERE!lol thank you for the great info!
Wendy! How did the strawberry salsa work out? No holding out, girl! Do share!
Christine! Honestly, I love my kids. But when i have to call DSS and ask them if duct tape will get me time, I know that I may not be cut out for the task. Bwahahaha!! Thank goodness they are all in school now!:o)
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